Give certain parts of yourself back to the people who need you most – your family and friends. Identify those specific behaviors, habits, and thoughts that take your best qualities and devotion away from those who love you most, then make a conscious effort to eliminate those negative aspects of your character.
There are some people who will never understand depression and crazy and we must be careful about who we tell. No matter how much education there is on this disorder, these are still very personal details about yourself and others. The lack of understanding from other people can turn out to be very hurtful for the person who is bipolar.
However, write good things that happened lately down too. You might feel that your partner doesn’t love you, but why not think of some of the good things that they’ve done for you so far?
The bipolar personality generally isn’t intrusive and they let you know that they are simply grateful for any time you spend with them. Falling in love with them is very easy and the thought of marriage come naturally. It looks like you are the luckiest person in the world and that it will never end since you are truly appreciative for this wonderful being sharing his or her life with you. It can only be a win-win situation.
I had been able to dismiss all those little behaviors before this. However for him to walk past me as if I was just another faceless person in the crowd, made me realize there was more of a problem then i had realized.
Send the children away for the weekend and you’ll be having sex in different rooms of the house, different beds, or in the back yard under the moon light.
Getting over the idea that your boyfriend dumped you is never going to be easy but neither is it going to be impossible. There are no end of homely “there you are” type pieces of advice from people who mean well but the truth, for all that, is that you are going to have to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and get on with things. The alternative is to stay stuck in the past wallowing in a mire of self pity.